說到私人空間⋯⋯

我們的blog是否也要有各自的空間呢？

私人時間

兩人的關係中，需要自己的私人時間／空間。媽媽和還沒上學的小小孩也一樣。現在，她在客廳看她的iPad，我在相隔的書房寫些有的沒的。這樣很好，偶爾。我不應該覺得內疚。我們都需要私人時間。

Bird talk

At the park this morning.

Jansie asked for a flower to hold in her hand, I told her "there's no fallen flower on the floor, if you pick the flower, the flower will die and the gardener will be very sad". She burst into tears and said :"sayang flower~~"

Then on the way back, she saw a small bird chirping on the floor, then I thought up a story saying that the bird is hungry and looking for her mommy. My emotional girl burst out crying again, feeling sad. So I explained : "mommy bird go and look for food for baby bird."

After awhile we saw another bigger bird, she shouted happily: "mommy bird!" and pointed at it: "mommy cooking". I laughed: "mommy bird don't cook, only human mommy cook!" then she replied with no doubt: "Order!"

Sh.. Shh... Keep quiet!

Jansie is putting Minnie and Mickey to sleep. She first hold Minnie in her arm and pat her, then lower down her voice and ask me to " keep quiet", she give them pillow and blanket, and walk away discreetly!

Little mommy is doing a good job!